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Simon_Leung 3T WIS 
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During the past two weeks I have been developing from severe physical pain,from the beatings I sustained as a child. The local hopsital ran some x-rays and another hospital ran a CAT scan to see what other hidden damage I may have suffered. My chest has collpased which is giving me difficulty in breathing and over the weekend my hands have swollened up,that was due to not having be able to breathe properly. I am not angry at my dad,in fact I was man enough years ago to forgave him. There is cranium pressure on the right side of my head that is effecting my hearing. But no signs of a fracture or bloodclot, this is the most frustrating area because the doctors who examined me,found nothing from the CAT scan. I've been blaming myself for years in having mild Dyscalculia,a form of dyslexia that pertains to the inability to comprehend mathematic concepts and financial planning. This is who I am and have learned to accept it. I'm in too much pain to continue to participate in the forums. Here are a group of people I would like to thank: Mark (paxman), John (Skipdawg),Tony D, KenC, Oscar (Oagaspar),Hucky and the rest of the administration team. My Fellow WIS: Murphy J,Paladin,Scottran,Nabco,Omegaman, Stew77,Jeep99dad,Gregger,Nicolasbdive,Tombs, DM71 and of course Jeff (bigrustypig). If I forget anyone I apologize. You are a marvelous group of people that I have ever met,give yourselves around of applause. It has been a pleasure during the year and a half, but now I feel the time has come to bid a fond goodbye and I wish to have my account permanently removed. Have a Happy Channukah and a Merry Christmas. Farewell, your friend Simon |
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Jeep99dad 3T WIS 
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Simon, you are a strog man and forgiving your dad is the best thing you could do, the first step in YOUR recovery, holding grudges inside just eats you for within and cannot take anything back... forgiving doesn't mean forgetting... It takes an incredibly strong person with a big heart and faith to be able to forgive such acts. I know HE is proud of you! I do hope that the pain subside quickly so you can resume the life you had and you may grace us with your presence and words of wisdon. You will be missed and this is not "air Revoir", just "a bientot mon ami!" I know we'll hear from you again. I'll be praying for you and wish you the best especially during the Holiday Season! God bless you and yours, Simon! Sincerely, Brice |
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scottran 3T WIS 
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Simon, I hope things turn around for you and your health gets better. We will all miss you around here. Hopefully it is temporary. If so, be sure to check back in. Take care and God bless. |
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hucky 3T WIS 
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Be Safe Simon see you next month :D |
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Gregger 3T WIS 
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Hope all works out Simon your knowledge will be missed... |
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Paladin 3T WIS 
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Sorry to hear things getting worse Simon. I can understand your leaving the forum (for awhile). I'll pray for your swift recovery and triumphant return. Be Blessed Brother, Bill |
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murphy j 3T WIS 
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Never say never Simon. With some Luck and Skilful medicine, you may see a turn around in your health. I certainly hope so. Just move forward and take care of yoursef. We'll still be here when you can come back. |
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Paxman 3T WIS 
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I agree with Murph, Simon. Never say never. I'm not sure by what you mean by your chest collapsing but I do know I see surgeons drill burr holes into skull to relieve pressure. If you have a condition which continues to build pressure (hydrocephalus) a stent can be fitted which will drain excess fluid your body to be absorbed. You mustn't give up and I don't think you are, but I want to make sure you keep on keeping on. The biggest challenges you face you have already answered my friend. The physical damage is easy to address. You have made the choice to deal with your emotional issues first and I applaud you for that. Be well brother! |
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teddyhanna Guest
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Good luck to you Simon and take care. |
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Nabco 3T WIS 
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I agree with what everyone else is saying Simon, hang in there, don't give up, and let the doctors do there thing, like Mark said is is amazing what is available today. Get better, we will be here when you are ready to comeback. |
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paulorbvalley 3T WIS 
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Best wishes Simon and all the best for the future,i hope you will be able to get back to the forum soon. Paul |
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stew77 Admin 
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Simon, I agree with what many others are saying here...forgiving is not forgetting...I believe forgiveness is one of the hardest things to do (especially when your act of forgiveness is for things that most people see as truly unforgivable). You have, and continue to show, true emotional faith, strength and heart!!!! As Brice already mentioned...I know that God is so proud of you Simon!!! I realize this is a public forum (so don't think I'm preaching to you or anything like that ;)...but the God I know wants us well in mind, spirit, and Body... ...you are obviously facing some severe physical pains and challenges in your body Simon...like others have said...DO NOT GIVE UP MAN!!!!...fight the good fight and take advantage of all that medical science has to offer now-days...make sure that you are seeking out the best doctors and care that are available for you. As has been mentioned...the advances in medical science that we are experiencing today are phenomonal!!! I will miss your participation in the forums in the short term...but look forward to your return as a healthier and stronger Simon. Take good care of yourself Simon...I will be keeping you in my prayers for a speedy and full recovery!! Be blessed, -Chris |
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bigrustypig 3T WIS 
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+1 with what Mark said, also with Chris' statements. You were there for your Mom a few months ago and you hurdled hat crisis well. Now, its your own test. For sure, you'll make it through. May The Force Be With You! Post again soon:) |
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apeogre 3T WIS 
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Best of luck. I hope things take a sharp upturn soon. |
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Graham 3T WIS 
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Simon May you find peace. We will keep your seat warm in the meantime. |
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DM71 3T WIS 
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Simon, what you are saying here is very sad and I just can admire your courage and, what i think is the right attitude to have in life. I just cannot think of 3T without your knowledge and I will not forget how many times you put a smile on my face, being a good and funny person. I really hope that the pain you're having now ends one day and I'll be watching for your return on 3T...you don't know it yet but...you'll be back! :D I wish you best of luck Simon and thank you for what you brought to 3T! Daniel |
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oagaspar Site Founder 
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Hang in there Simon!...you have many,many friends here on 3T that consider you family and wish you the best Buddy! hand6.gif |
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joecb 3T WIS 
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Simon, I hope you find inner peace and physical well being. I will miss your posts, they always had great info .... all the best, Joe |
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Janner 3T WIS 
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I hope you get well soon Simon. |
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Skipdawg 3T WIS 
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Simon take it from someone who was suppose to be in a wheelchair by the year 2000. If you give up and give in the doctors will be right. If you fight it every step of the way you can surprise them. I have to use a cane now and then but the chair they gave me has 10 years of dust on it now. ;) |
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IanM 3T WIS 
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Live your life well, Simon. Stay strong and find that inner peace - the best wishes of your brothers here on 3T are with you whether you post here or not. Good luck - and thank you for your participation. Until the next time you find yourself ready and able to check in here and share a thought or two - heartfelt best wishes to you, mate. IanM hand6.gif |
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Dragnattck 3T WIS
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Simon do not lose Faith. if you can forgive your father like you have, that takes courage and alot of Faith which you have. use it my friend and do not give up. I am kinda like Skip, I was suppose to have spinal surgery 12 yrs ago but refused it and well some does the pain is almost unbareable the majoirty of the time I can live with it. Take care and you will be missed, God Bless you and good luck |
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